The traditional martial arts have a mythology that
one’s character is improved by training, and that a bad apple can be set on a
more virtuous path by sweating it out in the dojo. It is a very attractive
idea, but is it true?
I recall a BJJ podcast from a few years back where a
university psychology student ran some personality tests measuring certain
positive and negative aspects of personality. The researcher was looking for
any measurable increase in positive aspects of personality that could be
attributed to training BJJ. Disappointed, he found no conclusive cause and
effect relationship after reviewing his data. His findings were that he could
not say that training jiu-jitsu improved people’s personalities.
I’ve never been in a jiu-jitsu gym where the students
gathered around a master to absorb lessons about spirituality and higher levels
of human consciousness. But there are benefits to our personalities that do
extend beyond the walls of the BJJ academy.
I believe that some who are timid can build some
self-confidence by confronting their private, inner fears on the mats.
I believe that having jiu-jitsu as a healthy way of
venting our stress from the pressures of our jobs, school, and relationships is
far better for our mental health than alcohol and drugs (prescription or
otherwise). I think we become easier to get along with after we are relaxed and
happy after a BJJ class. Our problems seem smaller.
The way I personally benefited from BJJ was it helped
me learn other, unrelated career skills. Starting to learn a new set of IT
skills was very daunting, daunting in the same way that learning BJJ was at one
time. Little by little, as I showed up to class, I improved and eventually
received my black belt.
Why couldn’t I
apply that same mind set and approach to my next career challenge? Many, many
times frustrated at trying to wrap my brain around a difficult programming
concept, I paused and remembered how confused I was at one time by the triangle
choke. But after many repetitions I could now do a triangle with my eyes
closed. I just needed to work through it.
The model for learning a complex task that got me
through jiu-jitsu was able to apply to a completely different area of my life.